Can I send Christmas cards as a Muslim?
It depends on the card and the scholars you follow. Many contemporary scholars allow sending a kind card to non-Muslim family, neighbors and coworkers, especially one with a general message like "Season's Greetings" or "Wishing you peace and joy." Stricter scholars say a Muslim shouldn't send cards congratulating anyone on Christmas. All agree that cards with religious images or messages about Jesus as God or Savior are off-limits.
Why scholars differ
A Christmas card is a kind of greeting, so the same debate applies as with saying "Merry Christmas."
- The stricter view: many classical scholars held that congratulating people on their religious festivals implies approving them, so cards marking Christmas should be avoided.
- The contemporary view: many scholars and councils in the West, such as the European Council for Fatwa and Research, allow greetings and cards as good manners toward peaceful neighbors and family, without approving their beliefs.
The second view leans on the Quran's permission to be kind to non-Muslims who live in peace with us:
For the spoken version of this question, see Can I say "Merry Christmas" to my coworkers?
Choosing the card
- Best choice: a winter scene, snowflakes, a landscape or a simple design, with "Season's Greetings," "Happy Holidays" or "Warm wishes for the new year."
- Avoid: nativity scenes, angels, crosses, "Christ is born" or "Jesus is the reason for the season." These are statements of faith, not just good wishes.
- Write it yourself: a short personal note means more than any printed text. "Thinking of you this winter. I'm so grateful for you" works for almost anyone.
Cards you receive
When family or coworkers send you a card, receive it graciously. The Quran tells us: "when you are greeted with a greeting, greet [in return] with one better than it or [at least] return it" (Quran 4:86). A thank-you message, a small note back, or a card of your own on Eid or New Year are all lovely ways to respond. You don't have to display a card with religious imagery, but there's no need to throw it away in front of anyone.
A card on your own terms
Many converts start sending cards on Eid instead, with a short note about what Eid means. This gives family a window into your faith in a warm way. You can also send a "Happy New Year" card in early January, which avoids the question for those following the stricter view.
- Scholars differ on Christmas cards; both views are held by sincere scholars.
- General winter wishes are the safest wording.
- Avoid religious images and messages that contradict tawhid.
- Return the kindness of cards you receive.
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