Can I shorten my prayers when visiting my parents?
Yes, usually. If your parents live far enough away to count as travel (roughly 80–90 km or more) and you no longer live in that town yourself, you are a traveler there and can shorten your prayers. If their home is still your home, or you stay long enough to count as a resident, you pray in full.
Is your parents' house still "home"?
This is the key question. Scholars talk about your watan, the place you actually live and have settled. Many converts grew up in one town and now live somewhere else with their own job, flat or family. In that case, your parents' town is no longer your home in the fiqh sense, even if it still feels like it. You are a visitor there, so the travel rules apply.
It's different if you still live with your parents part of the year, keep your main base there, or plan to move back. Then most scholars say you are at home and pray in full, the same as anyone in their own town.
What the schools say
- Hanafi: a former hometown stops being your home once you have moved away to settle elsewhere with no plan to return, so you may shorten there.
- Maliki, Shafi'i and Hanbali: the same in principle, though some scholars in these schools say owning a home or having a wife in a place makes you resident there.
If you're unsure which applies to you, ask a local scholar once and then stick with that answer. Allah made travel rules to make things easier, not harder:
How long is the visit?
Even as a traveler, a long stay changes things. The majority (Maliki, Shafi'i, Hanbali) say that if you intend to stay more than four days, you pray in full from the start. The Hanafi school sets the line at 15 days. A typical weekend or a week at Christmas usually falls inside the travel rules under the Hanafi view, but not always under the others. See How many days can I shorten my prayers when traveling?
Praying quietly at your parents' house
Shortening can actually make visits easier: two rak'at take only a few minutes in a spare room. You can also combine Dhuhr with Asr and Maghrib with Isha while traveling if the day is busy. See Can I pray at my parents' house during the holidays? For the journey itself, see How do I pray while traveling home for the holidays?
- If you've moved away for good, your parents' town isn't your home.
- You can shorten there if the distance counts as travel.
- A long stay (over 4 days, or 15 for Hanafis) means praying in full.
- If you still live there part-time, pray in full.
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