Can Muslims stay in a hostel with mixed dorms?

It's best to avoid mixed dorms; most scholars say sleeping in a shared room with non-mahram strangers of the opposite sex isn't appropriate. The good news is that almost every hostel offers female-only or male-only dorms, or cheap private rooms, so you rarely have to choose.
Why mixed dorms are a problem
A mixed dorm means sleeping, changing and waking up a few feet from strangers of the opposite sex, often with little privacy. Islam guards modesty and closes doors that can lead to harm:
The Prophet ﷺ said a man should not be alone with a woman unless a mahram is with her (Sahih al-Bukhari 5233). A dorm with several people isn't strict seclusion, but it brings other issues: seeing people undressed, keeping your own awrah covered, and late-night drinking or flirting that is common in party hostels.
Better options for the same budget
- Single-sex dorms: most hostel booking sites let you filter for "female only" or "male only" rooms. They're often the same price.
- Private rooms: a small private room in a hostel still gives you the social common areas and kitchen, but with your own door.
- Guesthouses and budget hotels: in many cities they cost little more than a dorm bed, especially when shared with a friend of the same sex.
- Muslim hosts: some mosques and Muslim communities help travelers find a safe place to stay.
If you're truly stuck
Sometimes a late arrival, a cancelled booking or a full town leaves only a mixed dorm. Some scholars allow it for one night as a real necessity, with care: change in the bathroom, sleep fully covered, keep conversations polite and short, and move as soon as you can. Necessity is judged by real need, not by saving a few euros.
Prayer and privacy on the road
Hostels can be tricky for prayer too. A private room makes it much easier. See How do I pray in a hotel room? The same thinking applies to university halls. See Can I live in mixed student housing as a Muslim? For solo trips, see Can a Muslim man travel alone?
- Mixed dorms clash with Islamic modesty and are best avoided.
- Single-sex dorms and private rooms are easy to find.
- A one-night emergency may be excused, with extra care.
- Private space also makes prayer much easier.
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