How do I explain Jesus to my kids as a Muslim parent?
Yes, and you can do it simply and warmly. Tell your child that Isa (Jesus) was a great prophet and messenger of Allah, born miraculously to Maryam (Mary). Muslims love and honor him, but we believe he was a servant of Allah, not God or God's son. Say it kindly, and teach your child to respect those who believe differently.
What to say in simple words
- "Isa was one of Allah's special messengers. Muslims love him and say 'peace be upon him' when we hear his name."
- "His mother, Maryam, was a very pious woman. Allah created Isa without a father, just as He created Adam without a mother or father." (Quran 3:59)
- "Allah gave Isa miracles, like healing sick people, with Allah's permission. He taught people to worship Allah alone."
- "Isa said he was a servant of Allah."
The Quran says that as a baby in the cradle, Isa spoke these words:
In a hadith about the declaration of faith, the Prophet ﷺ listed among the beliefs that Jesus is Allah's servant and messenger, His word that He gave to Maryam, and a spirit created by Him (Sahih al-Bukhari 3435). That shows how much Muslims honor him. To go deeper, see Do Muslims believe in Jesus?
When they hear something different
Children at school or church may hear that Jesus is the son of God or that he died on the cross. You don't need to argue. Try this: "Some people believe that, and we respect them. Muslims believe Allah is One and has no children (Quran 112:3). We believe Isa was a prophet, and that Allah protected him, and that he was not killed (Quran 4:157). Allah knows best." Keep it short, then leave room for questions.
For more on these beliefs, see Do Muslims believe Jesus was crucified? Older children may also ask whether Jesus will return. Muslims believe he will, before the end of time. See Do Muslims believe Jesus will come back?
Teach respect, not rivalry
- Be kind to Christian friends and family. Their love for Jesus is real, and he is dear to us too.
- Don't mock anyone's beliefs. A child who learns respect will find it easier to explain Islam.
- Let them ask. "That's a good question; let's learn together" is a fine answer.
- Avoid pictures of prophets. Muslims generally avoid drawing the prophets, so you may want to explain why when your child sees images elsewhere.
For the bigger picture of teaching about other faiths, see How do I teach my kids about other religions as a Muslim?
- Isa (Jesus) is a beloved prophet and messenger of Allah.
- Allah created him miraculously, as He created Adam (Quran 3:59).
- Muslims believe he was a servant of Allah, not God or His son (Quran 19:30).
- Teach respect and kindness toward people who believe differently.
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