Is it rude to touch a Muslim woman's hijab?

Why it matters so much

For a woman who wears it, hijab is part of her worship and her modesty. Touching or tugging it can feel like an invasion, and it can also move it out of place, showing hair she has chosen to cover. The Quran says covering helps women "be known and not be abused":

Grabbing a hijab does the opposite. See Is hijab a sign of oppression?

If you're a man

Don't touch it, even as a joke or out of curiosity. Many Muslim women also avoid physical contact with unrelated men, including handshakes, so a hand near her head will feel very uncomfortable. See Can I still shake hands with the opposite sex as a Muslim?

If you're a woman or a close friend

• Ask first: "Can I feel the fabric?" or "Can you show me how you tie it?" Most sisters are happy to share.
• Don't lift or peek: never pull it back to see her hair.
• Want to try one on? Ask her to lend you a spare scarf. See Can I wear a hijab if I'm not Muslim?

When it becomes harassment

Pulling off or yanking a woman's hijab is a well-known form of anti-Muslim abuse. In the UK and the USA, it can be treated as assault and a hate crime. If it happens to you, report it to the police, and in the UK you can also report it to Tell MAMA. Muslims are taught to keep others safe from harm: the Prophet ﷺ said a Muslim is the one from whose tongue and hand other Muslims are safe (Sahih al-Bukhari 10). For support afterwards, see How do I cope with Islamophobia emotionally?