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What are the rights of a wife in Islam?

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Yes, Islam gives a wife clear rights that her husband must respect. The main ones are kind and fair treatment, financial support and a home, her own mahr and property, safety and dignity, and companionship. These rights belong to her whether she is rich or poor, working or not.

Kind and fair treatment

The Quran tells husbands to live with their wives in a good and fair way, even when feelings are not perfect:

وَعَاشِرُوهُنَّ بِٱلْمَعْرُوفِ ۚ فَإِن كَرِهْتُمُوهُنَّ فَعَسَىٰٓ أَن تَكْرَهُوا۟ شَيْـًٔا وَيَجْعَلَ ٱللَّهُ فِيهِ خَيْرًا كَثِيرًا "Treat them fairly. If you happen to dislike them, you may hate something which Allah turns into a great blessing." Quran 4:19

The Prophet ﷺ said the best believers are those who are best to their wives (Jami at-Tirmidhi 1162). Insults, humiliation and violence have no place in a Muslim marriage. See How do I deal with emotional abuse in my marriage?

Financial support and a home

A husband must provide for his wife according to his means: food, clothing and housing (Quran 65:7). In his farewell sermon the Prophet ﷺ said wives have the right to be provided with food and clothing in a fitting manner (Sahih Muslim 1218). This applies even if she earns money or comes from a wealthy family. When a man was stingy, the Prophet ﷺ allowed his wife to take what was just and reasonable for the family's needs (Sahih al-Bukhari 2460).

Her mahr and her own money

The mahr (the gift the groom gives the bride at marriage) belongs to the wife alone, not to her family or her husband. Her salary, savings and property are also hers. She may spend them freely, and she has no duty to pay household costs, though she can choose to help. See Does a Muslim wife have to share her salary?

Dignity, intimacy and the right to leave a harmful marriage

A wife has a right to affection and companionship, and to a fulfilling marriage. The Prophet ﷺ told one Companion who was neglecting his family for extra worship, "Your wife has a right over you" (Sahih al-Bukhari 5199). She also has the right to privacy, to practise her faith and to be protected from harm.

If a marriage becomes harmful, she may seek help, mediation or a divorce. See Can a Muslim woman ask for a divorce?

Key points
  • A wife is owed kind, fair and respectful treatment.
  • Her husband must provide food, clothing and housing, even if she is wealthy.
  • Her mahr, salary and property are hers alone.
  • She has a right to affection, safety and, if needed, to seek a divorce.
Tip: Talk about money, household roles and expectations before the wedding and write the key points down, ideally in the marriage contract. Clear agreements prevent most later disputes.

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