What should a non-Muslim guest know before a mosque iftar?

Why guests are welcome

Feeding people is at the heart of Ramadan. The Prophet ﷺ said that whoever gives a fasting person food to break their fast earns the same reward as that person (Jami at-Tirmidhi 807). Hospitality is also part of the faith: he said that whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day should honour his guest generously (Sahih al-Bukhari 6018). Many mosques therefore hold open iftars, and guests are often seen as a blessing.

A few smaller mosques cater only for their members, or have limited space, so it's best to ask first. For a walk-through of the evening itself, see What happens at a mosque iftar? and for a short overview of who can attend, see Can non-Muslims attend iftar at a mosque?

What to bring

You don't have to bring anything, but guests often do. Good ideas include:

• Dates or fruit: traditional for opening the fast and always appreciated.
• A dessert or sweets: choose something simple and meat-free. Check that it contains no alcohol, pork or gelatin, since many Muslims avoid them.
• A small donation: some mosques run iftars on donations, and a small contribution is a kind gesture, although it's never required.
• A bottle of water: handy, though water is usually provided.

Don't bring alcohol or non-halal meat, even as a gift.

How to behave as a guest

• Arrive early: 20 to 30 minutes before sunset lets you settle in and meet people.
• Dress modestly: loose clothes that cover arms and legs. Take your shoes off at the entrance.
• Wait for the call to prayer: out of respect for those fasting, avoid eating or drinking in the hall until iftar is announced.
• Join the dates and water: everyone breaks the fast together. You can then watch the Maghrib prayer from the back or wait in the dining area.
• Sit where you're shown: men and women are often seated separately.
• Offer to help: setting up or clearing plates is a great way to meet people.
• Say "Ramadan Mubarak": it means "blessed Ramadan".

If you can't find an open iftar

If your local mosque doesn't host guests, try community centres, university societies or interfaith groups, which often run open iftars during Ramadan. A Muslim friend or colleague may also be glad to invite you to their home.