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What should I do if I'm bullied at school for being Muslim?

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No, you don't have to put up with it. Your safety comes first: get away from danger, tell a trusted adult right away, and report it to the school. Keep a record of what happens. Being patient in Islam doesn't mean staying silent about harm, and it's never your fault.

Safety first

  • In danger right now: walk away, go to a teacher or the office, and stay near other people. If someone is threatening or hurting you, call emergency services (911 in the US, 999 in the UK, 112 in most of Europe).
  • Don't fight back if you can avoid it: Islam allows you to defend yourself, but getting away is usually safer, and retaliation can get you punished instead of the bully. The Prophet ﷺ said: "The strong is not the one who overcomes the people by his strength, but the strong is the one who controls himself while in anger" (Sahih al-Bukhari 6114).
  • Hijab pulled, things damaged, physical contact: this is serious and should always be reported the same day.

Tell a trusted adult

Pick someone you trust: a parent, a teacher, a school counselor, a head of year or a coach. If you're a new Muslim and your family isn't supportive, a counselor or a trusted adult at your mosque can help too. You don't need to have a perfect explanation. "Some students are making fun of me for being Muslim and I don't feel safe" is enough.

Use the school's procedures

  • Keep a record: dates, times, what was said or done, names of witnesses, and screenshots of any messages or posts.
  • Report in writing: an email to your teacher or head of year creates a record. Ask what the school's anti-bullying policy says and what will happen next.
  • Follow up: if it continues, ask for a meeting with a parent or another adult present, and go higher (principal, head teacher) if needed.
  • If the school doesn't act: in many countries schools are expected by law to deal with harassment linked to religion or ethnicity. Groups like CAIR (US) or Tell MAMA (UK) can give advice.
  • Online bullying: don't reply, screenshot it, then block and report the account.

Looking after yourself

Bullying hurts, and it's normal to feel angry, embarrassed or tempted to hide your faith. Talk about it instead of carrying it alone. Make du'a, lean on friends who are kind to you, and remember that Islam honors you even when some people mock it. Allah says: "let not a people ridicule [another] people; perhaps they may be better than them" (Quran 49:11). If you ever feel hopeless, reach out to a helpline such as Childline (UK) or 988 (US). If you wear hijab and feel anxious about it, see What if I'm scared to wear hijab in public?

If you see another student being bullied, speak up or tell an adult. The Prophet ﷺ taught us to help the oppressed and to stop the oppressor "by preventing him from oppressing others" (Sahih al-Bukhari 2444).

يَٰٓأَيُّهَا ٱلَّذِينَ ءَامَنُوا۟ ٱسْتَعِينُوا۟ بِٱلصَّبْرِ وَٱلصَّلَوٰةِ ۚ إِنَّ ٱللَّهَ مَعَ ٱلصَّٰبِرِينَ "O you who have believed, seek help through patience and prayer. Indeed, Allah is with the patient." Quran 2:153
Key points
  • Get to safety first, then tell a trusted adult.
  • Write everything down and report it in writing.
  • Avoid retaliation; let the school deal with it.
  • Patience in Islam includes asking for help.
Tip: Keep a simple note on your phone with the date, what happened and who saw it, every time. A clear log makes it much harder for a school to ignore the problem.

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