What should I wear to a Muslim funeral?
In most cases, plain, modest clothes in dark or neutral colours are best. There is no special mourning outfit and black is not required. Cover your shoulders and knees, avoid anything flashy or tight, and women should bring a scarf to cover their hair during the prayer, which is appreciated rather than compulsory for guests.
The simple rule
Muslim funerals are humble, so the best dress is clean, quiet and respectful. The Quran reminds us what really matters when it comes to clothing:
If you are wondering whether something is suitable, ask yourself if it would draw attention. If so, choose something calmer. For general guidance on mosque dress, see What should I wear to the mosque?
For men
- Long trousers and a shirt with sleeves. A jacket is fine; a tie is optional.
- Clean socks without holes, since you may take your shoes off at the prayer hall.
- You do not need a hat or cap, though many Muslim men wear one.
For women
- A loose dress, a skirt below the knee, or trousers with a longer top. Sleeves that cover the elbows are ideal.
- A scarf for your hair. Bring one even if you do not normally wear it.
- Little or no heavy perfume, bright make-up or dramatic jewellery.
Colours and the weather
Black is common in the West but not a religious rule. White, grey, navy, brown and soft tones all work. Avoid party colours and slogans. Because the burial usually takes place outdoors, wear weather-appropriate shoes and bring a coat or umbrella; the ground can be muddy and you may stand for a while.
Other etiquette for guests
- Put your phone on silent and do not take photos or video.
- Men and women often stand or sit in separate areas. Follow the signs or ask a volunteer.
- You do not have to join the prayer. Standing quietly at the back is respectful.
- Some Muslims avoid shaking hands with the opposite sex, so a nod with a hand over the heart is a safe greeting.
- Skip the flowers. Cards, food for the family and kind words are more welcome.
To understand what will happen on the day, see What happens at a Muslim funeral? And for what to say afterwards, see What should I say to a grieving Muslim family?
- Modest, plain, clean clothes; black is not required.
- Women bring a scarf for the prayer; men wear long trousers.
- Silence your phone and do not take photographs.
- Non-Muslims do not need to join the prayer.
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